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10 Tips To Keep The Flame Going In Your Married Life

February 6th, 2008 · 4 Comments

These tips apply to all husbands and wives!

1)  Spend some time to have quality conversations with each other everyday.

2)  Every week, take some time off to go out on a date just like your courting days.  You can go for a movie, take a walk at the beach or go makan-hopping at your favourite food haunts.

3)  Surprise each other with love SMS messages at any time of the work day.  Keep it short and sweet.  It shows that your other half is in your thoughts even when you are apart.

4)  If your other half has a tough day at work, lend him a listening ear if he wishes to talk about it.  Give him a soothing massage if he is physically tired .

5)  Give him some time of his own to do what he enjoys, like reading a book or playing his video games.  On the other hand, you get to enjoy your own private time as well.

6)  Find an activity or sport that both of you enjoy doing on a regular basis.  No more excuses about no time for each other!

7)  Every morning before leaving for work, give each other a goodbye kiss.  Every night before sleeping, give each other a goodnight kiss.

8)  Take turns to do the housework.  Your other half will really appreciate an extra pair of hands!

9)  Surprise each other with little gifts once in a while.  It doesn’t only have to be on special occasions like birthdays, but anytime you feel like it!

10)  Hold each other’s hands when you are out just like dating days.  Many couples conveniently forget to do that after having kids.

Wishing you a blissful married life. :)

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4 responses so far ↓

  • 1 a husband // Apr 2, 2008 at 8:09 pm

    Thanks! Enjoyed the list!

  • 2 fortunekitty // Apr 3, 2008 at 11:03 pm

    Thank you for dropping by! :)

  • 3 Weekend Kindness » Keep that Flame Burning // May 7, 2008 at 10:46 pm

    [...] It’s those of us that have been married a bit longer than need more help!  That’s why people write lists like 10 Tips to Keep The Flame Going in Your Married Life. [...]

  • 4 Laurie from How to Make My Wife Happy // Nov 24, 2008 at 7:41 am

    I recently read someone compare men and women to Macs and PCs. I loved the analogy because I think we do have different operating systems. So, its always good to check with our partner and find out what they might like to do and do it with them. Makes them feel good and we’ve learned a little more about how the other operating systems enjoys life!

    I’m not even going to try to suggest which sex is which operating system! Too many biases!

    Now I’m going to drink tea with my fabulous husband.

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